I think I still try to use the “objectivity lens” almost all the time, I’m only just considering the other lenses and wondering what they might even be. Not to say I’ve been truly objective, far far from it I am sure, just that being objective has been my intention most of the time.

This is a pretty beautiful and memorable comment John, I appreciate it. I sense we think in different patterns, but can follow yours and enjoy doing so. Totally agree that what we were taught was normal/objective was very off — to me it seems more of a compromise between the powers that be. I think that wireless connection is going to stay with me for a while. Thank you.